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Created by: Manglo Woods

8/7/15 @ 9:42pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Created by: thomas80

8/7/15 @ 10:07pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Hi Manglo, welcome. You can send the member a message & ask if there was a problem. Good luck.

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Created by: gofish

8/8/15 @ 12:53am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Hello,

I am fairly new here, and when i go into pvt and have to talk... It seems they leave, maybe it is myy voice or i just don't know how what to say.. Just recentlyy someone said "do you want to fuck me" i replied "Yea i want to fuck you" unless he came instantly after i said thathe more than likely left and left my chat

Any advice..

Thanks

Manglo Woods first of all don't get discouraged by what some members might do once they go into a private. You are a very good looking guy so don't sell yourself sort. The member in question might just not really known what he was looking for, but the suggestion to send him a message is a good idea.
I find that when a performer on the site take the time to actually use the mic in open chat it makes thing so much more personal. Just mark this encounter as one of many every performer on the site often has.

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Created by: ronnie-uk

8/9/15 @ 10:20am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Hi Manglo, welcome. You can send the member a message & ask if there was a problem. Good luck.

Manglo - I agree with this advice from Thomas, and there is probably nothing more to add in response to your first post.

However, I was going to raise a separate topic called "Talking Dirty" some time. As the forum is quiet at the moment perhaps I could use your topic to raise the point I was going to make. Hope that is OK

I have enjoyed lots of private shows here. I ask the performer what I like to see, and let the performer know how much I am enjoying the show. I like to use the heart, kiss and thumbs-up emojis to show this, rather than do lots of typing. I am happy to be a fan, and treat the performer as the star.

I have done private shows with some performers who ask me to "talk dirty" and are very much into 2-way role playing. I can go along with that, but it was a problem with one performer who said he could only get hard if I kept talking dirty the whole time. I found that difficult. However, I think some other guys would love that.

Just my personal preference. Hope it is of some interest to someone ... :winkwink

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Created by: aliusuk

8/9/15 @ 4:13pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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This is a matter that I have worried about. I am just not good at talking dirty, but want the model to know that I am enjoying their show, find them deeply attractive and respect and value them as people. I also hate typing much during shows.
I tend just to say a few things like 'you have a gorgeous body', 'great cock', 'I love you'. As far as I can tell, the models I have regular privates with understand me. But I could be wrong.

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Created by: Ellis Zane

8/9/15 @ 6:01pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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I am willing to bet you don't really want to "fuck" these guys and I think they are just hearing that in you voice. It may not be that there is something wrong with your voice, rather it may not be believable. What I do instead is be as genuine as possible - the best outcome for me has always been telling the guest up front if their request makes me uncomfortable ... but instead I can tell him "how much I wish I was in that lonesome looking bed with him, with my hands working ...." etcetera.. I think what most people really want to hear is what you actually like, what turns you on, what genuinely makes you hot. -- I have been asked to be humiliated in private, asked to call a man racial slurs, asked to talk dirty, all things I either refuse to do or simply am not great at (talking dirty). When I tell them that they often ask for an alternative ... maybe the want to hear you describe yourself. Whatever it is there is most likely something you are more talented than most at - use that. And remember, you can't please all of the people all of the time ... but you can please some of the people some of the time..

Best,

Ellis

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Created by: gofish

8/10/15 @ 1:07am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Created by: zyxwv098

8/10/15 @ 2:11am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Hello,

I am fairly new here, and when i go into pvt and have to talk... It seems they leave, maybe it is myy voice or i just don't know how what to say.. Just recentlyy someone said "do you want to fuck me" i replied "Yea i want to fuck you" unless he came instantly after i said thathe more than likely left and left my chat

Any advice..

Thanks

I may get blasted for saying this, but if you're not comfortable "talking dirty", you shouldn't force yourself. Dirty talk isn't for everyone. Some may really get off on giving or receiving it, but others--and I include myself--are just not that into it. If you are, then that's fine...but if you're not and you're just trying to do it to please the member, it will be obvious you're not really comfortable with it, which may make the member uncomfortable as well, and the overall mood will be ruined.

If anything, I'd suggest just being yourself. Push your boundaries gradually so that anything new to you becomes comfortable...and maybe after a while, the talking dirty will come naturally and sound "real", even if you are role-playing for that person.

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Created by: gofish

8/10/15 @ 2:55am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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I may get blasted for saying this, but if you're not comfortable "talking dirty", you shouldn't force yourself. Dirty talk isn't for everyone. Some may really get off on giving or receiving it, but others--and I include myself--are just not that into it. If you are, then that's fine...but if you're not and you're just trying to do it to please the member, it will be obvious you're not really comfortable with it, which may make the member uncomfortable as well, and the overall mood will be ruined.

If anything, I'd suggest just being yourself. Push your boundaries gradually so that anything new to you becomes comfortable...and maybe after a while, the talking dirty will come naturally and sound "real", even if you are role-playing for that person.

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