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Male Performer Chat: Chatroom etiquette 101

Created by: suggs

4/13/12 @ 5:03am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Created by: anniefrombrisbane

4/13/12 @ 6:25am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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i could not agree more .. and very clearly and succinctly put ... well done !!!!

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Created by: asti

4/13/12 @ 7:38am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Good list Suggs, thanks. I thought they were all common sense but as you know not everyone uses theirs.

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Created by: Jake Trenton

4/13/12 @ 8:21am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Wonderful post, Suggs. :thumbsup

The only way I could agree more would be if you had included "No bb" in you list. :winkwink

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Created by: ryan1266

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Very well said and am in total agreement

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Created by: Paul Atreides

4/13/12 @ 11:42am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Yep, that's pretty much it :thumbsup

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Created by: ricamore

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Suggs, I couldn't have stated that better myself. This is a subject matter that I have discussed several times with various members here on the site. You definitely hit the nail in the coffin. :thumbsup

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Created by: kheldarxy

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I agree 110%, and I am unanimous in that. :winkwink

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Created by: anniefrombrisbane

4/13/12 @ 6:29pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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could this maybe get the VS "sticky" treatment .. so it stays at the top of the page with the Adam Foxx post ... it's far less for people to read, when they're anxious to get back to their model(s) !!!

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Created by: didione

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As we all know, the persons who are the miscreants, not using their common sense, are predominantly not even members of the site and, if they are, most don't even look in this section of the site to see that they are being taken to task. But on the off chance that one or two make it here, I agree that Suggs has some great suggestions. It's just too bad that the ones who need to read them probably won't!

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...Well done Suggs :thumbsup

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Created by: dude.man

4/14/12 @ 12:16pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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I need to work on a couple of these rules. I've been ill and the past couple weeks I have been a bit grumpy. Thanks to everyone for bumping this thread up and making this post stay at the top of the list. I have a couple suggestions to add:

*Chatters should try to combine words and form complete sentences...posting lol 10 times isn't adding anything to the conversation
*Don't call out other members you saw in a different room, its not polite to the model or to the other members.

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Created by: muscleloverbear

4/14/12 @ 4:47pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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I don't usually visit this section of the forums but thought these would be a good thing to post on both female and male sections,

Basic unofficial chat guidelines created by customers / models

01 -- No repetitive begging
02 -- Caps off please
03 -- No promoting of a different site
04 -- No promoting another model off the site
05 -- Only talk about another model if mentioned by performer 1st
06 -- The most important person in a room is the performer
07 -- No means NO - not Maybe
08 -- For the most part English is primary language used in rooms.
09 -- Speak to the performers how you like to be spoken to.
10 -- Show the models respect.
11 -- No fighting of you don't agree with someones views on stuff.
12 -- If you want to get off to a model - do it in PVT !
13 -- All of the above rules are for when a performer is in open AND private.
14 -- If you cant afford pvt - say so!!
15 -- Read the performers bio.

Any more ideas will be added in time

Thought these needed a bump from the lower pages as recently I have seen people come into rooms to either A - promote themselves in a models room (both male and female models doing the promoting ) and B - a person coming into a room to trash talk a model then saying 'go visit *insert models name* instead - this 2nd method was totally unbeknown st to the model in question as I spoke to her and she was p!ssed that some1 was doing it.

Thank you Suggs, for posting those fine and easy 15 points on here.

At first I was so proud that I would follow them all without any doubt, I have to admit finally and after reading them all and very slowly, that to my shame I have had violated at least two items (05 and 11) in my time on here. Not that I do it often or in any intention disrespectfully while a model is in a private show (05) nor I do it lighty or better not after my long patience has been fully tested (11), its still one or two things that I better spend some work on. So, again Suggs, thanks for reminding me on my neglected self reflection.

All the Best

MLB

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Created by: ilbill

4/14/12 @ 7:05pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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i fully agree couldn't have said to better there's no reason a model should have to endure rude behavior

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Created by: imacumluvr

4/16/12 @ 9:50pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Speaking of etiquette, there is one thing you failed to mention ....

The model needs to maintain control of his own room and not allow an obnoxious member to "run" the room for him. Pretty annoying to enter a room and see one or two members running roughshod over other members while the model just sits there and allows it to happen

Just my

and now, back to the show

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Created by: ronnie-uk

4/19/12 @ 7:26pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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One additional point where I am not sure about the etiquette: what to do when you leave a model's room. With some models I say "bye" or "see you later/soon" and with others I just slip away quietly. It can also depend if the model is busy chatting, as I don't like to interrupt the flow (and I don't like to whisper). Not sure what is best.

I am taking it as read that you thank the model immediately if you have enjoyed a private show, Group Chat or Party Chat.

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Created by: bisporti23

6/21/12 @ 12:15pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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I�d like to add:

16 -- handle the whisperfunction responsible and with care

I know that I might poke into a hornets nest here. The VIP-status comes with certain priveleges and rightly so (I�m not a VIP just so you know), among them the possibility to "whisper", i.e. - for those who don�t know what that is - to make statements in the chatroom which only the model can see. No problem for me so far; if I would want that bad enough I�d get upgraded to VIP.

What I find somehow annoying, though, is when you enter a room or even worse you already in chatt and then you realize by the models responses (written that is) that there is a whole conversation in whispermode going on :twocents

Am I too squemish here? Looking forward to get some oppinions about that.

Greezt
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