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@lucas
Of course I am being judgmental. Nearly every time we post a comment we are all being judgmental. Every opinion about a person or a group is a judgment. You are no exception. You are not as holy as you think you are. You made judgments and I pointed that out. You are finagling out of it by saying you only said that about some of the models, not all. Does not matter. It is a judgment.

By the way, calling me judgmental is in itself judgmental on your part.

You still never answered the question, what's your problem with sex workers why do you need to "refrain" from calling them that.

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@lucas
Like I said before, I don't have to answer your questions. You can assume whatever you want, which you already have and you are probably right. If your assumption offends you, hey, it was your assumption. Quote

@lucas
Like I said before, I don't have to answer your questions. You can assume whatever you want, which you already have and you are probably right. If your assumption offends you, hey, it was your assumption.

Think the main message of this topic was about viewers taking cheap rmarks about the models on the site. At this point it might be modified to taking cheap comments about those posting there thought here & agree with what was said above. Everyone on the site is entitled to their opinion and no judgement is required about what they might say. You might agree or not agree which is completely fine.

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Here's my thoughts:
1. Not much difference between sex workers and "porn models". Hey just call them "Flirt models". There's nothing wrong with any of these labels. Sex work is one of the oldest callings. Apparently humans need it. I consider it part of sexual health. During the early days of the HIV epidemic, Flirt was a safe haven.
2. Some models, regardless of sexual orientation, are exploitive. Many are kind and generous. Some have that little bit of angel and devil that is the perfect combination for me.
3. For me, it's more fun when I can at least imagine a connection with the model.
4. By all means, let your mouse do the talking. If a model is not the right fit for whatever reason, find one that is better.
5. Sometimes I give constructive, well-intentioned feedback which the model can ignore or take to heart: "don't spend so much time on your phone" , etc.
6. I see NO reason to publicly chastise a model. Public criticism is seldom warranted in any area of life. I would provide feedback in "whispers". TBH honest, the only public criticism I give is to the notorious Green Badges who seem to be broken records and not of age saying over and over "show me your dick".
Happy Holidays to my US friends.
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While some members might see many of these models on a site as "Sex Workers" think it is time to rethink that term.
Odds are many come on the site for financial reasons being from certain countries where the economy is pretty bad. The fact that they end up on a site like this does not mean they need to be classified as sexy workers. Odd are a few here will disagree and that is something they have to live with, but never judge a person who is trying to make the best of their life under you are standing in their shoes.
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Folks, camming is considered sex work, even though it’s virtual, it still involves providing erotic or sexual content in exchange for payment and it requires emotional labor, performance skills, and strong boundaries, just like any other form of sex work.

Many cam models also face the same challenges as other sex workers when it comes to things like dealing with financial institutions or applying for loans, precisely because of the stigma attached to their line of work.

By the way, at least for me, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with using the term sex work, I have zero judgment against this line of work, and I think it deserves more respect and understanding than it usually gets.

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