Hi Neil, welcome to Flirt.
Since you found your way to the forum, you have made already an important step! Exchange with your fellow performers (the preferred term for some of us) AND members! Lots of new guys have similar questions, so there is already a bunch of threads intended for newbies:
deaf's great thread about tipping and respect:
http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=19765&num_posts=159
S uggs' Chatiquette:
http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=14375&num_posts=88
LP's discussion about likes and mostly dislikes of members in open chat can be found here:
http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=21665&num_posts=207
Some general advice was collected here by ronnie:
http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=22553&pg=2
I hope this will give you a feeling about what (most (of the "good")) members expect and like, what can happen on here and how to grow a thick skin against those visitors who don't read the forums (aka the reckless, rude and ruthless).
Also, it is always worth to search the forum for older threads that might answer your questions

and may it be about how to carefully shave your balls

.
Happy flirting!
PS: I just went through your bio
http://www.flirt4free.com/models/bios/neil-hunter/about.php
and ... I for once have a thing for well-spoken, posh British guys ... See ya soon!
Quote