We often hear about who is the best model and such like, but from a performer's point of view what would be considered a Good Member?
Hopefully some performers will post a few comments and that this posting will take on a life of its own.

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We often hear about who is the best model and such like, but from a performer's point of view what would be considered a Good Member?
Hopefully some performers will post a few comments and that this posting will take on a life of its own.




I know this is make chat forum, but damn boys...your topics seem to be more intriguing then the ladies forum...these are more helpful then "what I should name my next cat" or " #1 sports team" !! So, I apologize for barging in, but knowledge is power in my view!!!

My 2 cents considers an awesome member is one that can read the topic for the hour, that probably states to please show some love a send a tip if you want a request even considered!!! If one is not posted by the model, know that beggars are not hot, and when we ask for even the smallest tip for that request to happen, you don't keep asking for it to happen in hopes we models give in!!
That is foremost key in my room at least...once everyone knows what is expected to receive their requests...I encourage conversation in my room... I can't have a good time and party in a library so why would you think I would be living it up here when no one says anything to me for a few minutes or so!! Live it up peeps...the more fun I have with my customers, the more active I get and generous I start to become!!
Last but completely not least...members that show respect!!! Everyone has different flavors...if you come to my room and say to me aloud that either A) I'm fat and not sexy or B) if you had more shit to shake , I would tip!! That is opinion of your own that doesn't need to be announced...just gracefully leave my room and find the model that rocks your world!! I may not be your cup of tea, but I know that others may see me as flawless!!

Make sure to stop in and show some of us "bottom feeders" "lowest on the totem pole" "starting at the bottom" model a fair chance... I've watched the top 20 models....and know that they too were here starting from scratch working their way to the top!! I will get there too... Just need a little help from all of you along the way!!!

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Thank you, Michelle. I am a gay man(so I am not trying to earn some points with a pretty lady like you) and I was very pleased to read your comments on this subject. Great to learn what people think about this matter. Quote

I know this is make chat forum, but damn boys...your topics seem to be more intriguing then the ladies forum...these are more helpful then "what I should name my next cat" or " #1 sports team" !! So, I apologize for barging in, but knowledge is power in my view!!!

My 2 cents considers an awesome member is one that can read the topic for the hour, that probably states to please show some love a send a tip if you want a request even considered!!! If one is not posted by the model, know that beggars are not hot, and when we ask for even the smallest tip for that request to happen, you don't keep asking for it to happen in hopes we models give in!!
That is foremost key in my room at least...once everyone knows what is expected to receive their requests...I encourage conversation in my room... I can't have a good time and party in a library so why would you think I would be living it up here when no one says anything to me for a few minutes or so!! Live it up peeps...the more fun I have with my customers, the more active I get and generous I start to become!!
Last but completely not least...members that show respect!!! Everyone has different flavors...if you come to my room and say to me aloud that either A) I'm fat and not sexy or B) if you had more shit to shake , I would tip!! That is opinion of your own that doesn't need to be announced...just gracefully leave my room and find the model that rocks your world!! I may not be your cup of tea, but I know that others may see me as flawless!!

Make sure to stop in and show some of us "bottom feeders" "lowest on the totem pole" "starting at the bottom" model a fair chance... I've watched the top 20 models....and know that they too were here starting from scratch working their way to the top!! I will get there too... Just need a little help from all of you along the way!!!

Kisses


Thx for u Michelle!
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A good member is positive, energetic, funny, and involved with the room. They rally the room for a common goal. Always willing to hand out a smile or laugh even when things may not be going very well:/. They respect the model and there fellow members. A good member has the sack to give the model feedback about there performance whether it be positive or negative, to help improve your performance for future customers. A good member is one you always want in your room and are disappointed when they dont show to your room. .......or as I would say .....a good member is one that you would give a *highfive* to if you seen them walking down the street! Quote

We often hear about who is the best model and such like, but from a performer's point of view what would be considered a Good Member?
Hopefully some performers will post a few comments and that this posting will take on a life of its own.



when a good friend tell he so with out using the words good member

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If talk about it - then this is piece of my blog - was write it week ago

Hey,u know,there was a computer gmae called Fable.One of the most important things was that while u play it,ur appearance changing,it depends on things u done - fro example if u hit a man ur morality goes down,and u become a devil,if u save a citizinez - angel.Here on flirt,we got the same thing - some memebers give tips,acting nice,and their morality grows,and we both(model and members)feels bettr.But some mebers who come to fight in chat rooms,blame models that they do this for money,never tip in parties,etc,makes look bad themselves,and models feel bad in this cases,it makes them be angry or upset on all members in your chat room.So please,think twice before say something in chat room,and be honest with urself guys.
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In my opinion what makes a good member is to always respect the model who's room you are in. Be friendly. Be supportive. Join in the conversation if you can. Tip or private if you are able because after all these guys are here to try and make some extra money. Never start a fight in the room. Be respectful to the other members as well. Never make demands without at least offering a tip. A nice free feature that is offered is the power boost. Boost whenever possible to raise their ranking. If you see them online and they are having a slow evening alert your friends on twitter to come visit. Write about them in the forums so other members may drop in to check them out. NEVER judge the model judgments should be left to the man upstairs. and PLEASE if you make a request make it worth the models time to do it. a 10 credit tip to see someones cock is an insult in my opinion (but that's just my opinion). When you leave a models room take just a moment to say goodbye and thank the model for his time. Its just being gentlemanly. Compliments are nice as well. If a guy looks particularly hot that day tell him so. a boost in confidence is something we all could use sometimes. If you're in a room and see nice members being supportive but have been honest and upfront about not having credits tip for them. I did twice last night and both won fan club memberships to a very sweet models fan club. Not only did I help the model with tips but also made 2 guys night. A little kindness amongst members doesn't hurt sometimes. Finally in closing remember it all comes down to respect. Be a decent human being to all members. They are human beings with thoughts, feelings, hopes, and dreams. Whether they tip or not is not a good reason to dislike them. Quote

deafTN, I agree with almost everything you said...just one caveat:

If you see them online and they are having a slow evening alert your friends on twitter to come visit.


Rather than tweet openly, contact those friends you know would be interested and who are likely to show their appreciation with tips and boosts rather than just words.
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If you're in a room and see nice members being supportive but have been honest and upfront about not having credits tip for them. I did twice last night and both won fan club memberships to a very sweet models fan club. Not only did I help the model with tips but also made 2 guys night


Great post, deafTN

I particularly liked the part I have highlighted. There have been times when I wanted to give credits to nice members so they could join in a group show. Sadly that is not possible.

Tipping for other members, helping them to win fan club memberships, is really sweet
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Awesome to see this posting really take off and yep deafTN you hit the nail on the head with your response. Miss seeing you in the rooms but know when you are the performer is in for some great company.
Thank you to all who have left a message and hope a few models follow up with their view point as well.
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Ok I will share mine opinion. Good member for me: at first not rude and not jealous, at second member which like to have some chatting before pvt or befor acting in pvt or after acting cuz it's helping to understand preferences of member; at the fourth members which not shy to say what poses and how close they wanna watching in show; at the five member which understanding that we are alive people and could be wanting to pee or drink; at the final member which could have conversations not only about hard cocks and tight asses.
Thnx for attention.
With best regards. Akim. Quote

...Thanks for writing here Akim. I know how much you do like talking before and after your show so you can get to n=know the members more on a personal level. I enjoy getting to know you better as well. Quote