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Male Performer Chat: To whisper or not to whisper that is the question

Created by: stinks

2/4/15 @ 11:52am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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open chat is not as fun as it was so it save me money and you guys don't need to do talking piv anymore so whispering is good

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Created by: ronnie-uk

2/25/15 @ 11:07am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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I think this is your fourth whispering topic here, gofish, but I can understand why you feel strongly. Whispering is "going overboard" as you say. It has now become an epidemic :evil

I find that ALL new performers whisper EVERYTHING to me. Even the simplest messages like "hi", "hru" and "thx".

I have never liked whispering here, and have tried to do it as little as possible. VS still advise that whispers can be very disruptive and should be used responsibly and only when necessary.

I now have a genuine dilemma when performers whisper everything to me. Should I:

1. say "hi", "I'm fine thx", "hru" and other routine messages as a whisper

2. say "hi", "I'm fine thx", "hru" and other routine messages in open chat

3. tell the performer I don't like whispering

4. change my view about whispering, and start to enjoy it

5. simply leave the performer's room

Just wanted to add some further points to my post #7 here:

1. You will see that I tried to be polite and respectful, gofish, in referring here to your fourth whispering topic. I was surprised that you then posted a fifth whispering topic, and I am not surprised that there were some negative comments...

2. I completely agree with the point you raised there about performers whispering routine messages like "hi" and "hru". That is the point I raised here.

3. I think I should have included an "ignore" option in my list of possible responses which I listed above.

4. I now make a point of ignoring the first whisper I get, in the same way that I deliberately ignore autogreet messages. This covers the possibility that the whisper might actually be an autogreet message, as Manic4Manon suggested here.

5. I now reply to virtually all whispers openly (my option 2). This could be the best way of curbing the "epidemic", if all members did the same...

6. I raised a topic about members using their profile pages to let performers know their preferences (a). I have included a short list of "My Likes" and "My Dislikes", and have put whispering at the top of the second list. I encourage performers to look at my profile page if they are trying to get me interested. Might have some effect, if more members did the same.

(a) http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=21629&num_posts=9

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Created by: gayslave4u

2/26/15 @ 1:39am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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It really doesn't have to be this difficult guys ...

If you want to whisper .. whisper.

If you don't want to whisper .. don't.

Pretty simple, eh?

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Created by: ronnie-uk

2/26/15 @ 2:41pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Sounds very simple to me, gayslave4u, and you are probably right :thumbsup

I prefer a slight variation:

If you like it when others whisper, then whisper

If you don't like it when others whisper, then don't whisper

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Created by: stinks

2/26/15 @ 3:14pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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the open chat that I know and love is no more but more model know how to do party chat now so I am still here.

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Created by: louisphillippe

2/26/15 @ 11:23pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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the open chat that I know and love is no more but more model know how to do party chat now so I am still here.

The Eleventh Commandment:"Thou shall not whisper... :angel

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Created by: stinks

2/27/15 @ 12:57am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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The Eleventh Commandment:"Thou shall not whisper... :angel

thou shall not tell the forums where there is still real open chat in the rooms.

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Created by: louisphillippe

2/27/15 @ 3:01pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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thou shall not tell the forums where there is still real open chat in the rooms.

:orglaugh

"Real chat" in Flirt4free??...Naaahhh!!! that went out
of style with the hula hoops and the bell bottoms... :orglaugh

Now you are squeezed like a lemon for everything you do from the moment
you log in... :mad

Soon we'll have to pay to post in the Forum... :orglaugh

( Opppsss!!!

I just gave then a new idea!!!

)

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Created by: stinks

2/28/15 @ 12:03pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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"Real chat" in Flirt4free??...Naaahhh!!! that went out
of style with the hula hoops and the bell bottoms... :orglaugh

Now you are squeezed like a lemon for everything you do from the moment
you log in... :mad

Soon we'll have to pay to post in the Forum... :orglaugh

( Opppsss!!!

I just gave then a new idea!!!

)

do you really think our young friends know what hula hoops and bell bottoms are

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Created by: stinks

2/28/15 @ 12:23pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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is gofish old enough to know?

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Created by: louisphillippe

2/28/15 @ 3:08pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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do you really think our young friends know what hula hoops and bell bottoms are

I found out through the BBC History Movies: " The 60s in Music and Styles.."
( No one saw Noah's Ark or Krakatoa's eruption yet everybody talks about it...)
:winkwink

The furor of hula hops invaded Earth in the early sixties until the seventies... :winkwink

And bell bottoms were made popular by the Beatles and the hippies of the early
seventies when our grand parents were teenagers... :guitar

Taa daaaaahhhhh!!!! there you have it in a nut shell... :orglaugh

Because you are young it doesn't mean you have to be ignorant ... :angel

Just ask Mom or Dad!! :drinkup

Thank you for your smart comment Stink!!... :thumbsup

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Created by: stinks

2/28/15 @ 4:24pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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the early
seventies when our grand parents were teenagers...

LOL

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Created by: trunder

2/28/15 @ 9:15pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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If the model is going to allow whispering it should be for all except grays. I am tired of getting the message that the model is blocking whispering for premium members. I really do not like that the model is talking to someone whom the rest of us cannot read. It makes for an awkward conversation. :twocents

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Created by: stinks

5/26/15 @ 10:57am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Not to whisper. That is the answer

best answer ever on this forums
:thumbsup

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Created by: manic4manon

5/26/15 @ 3:20pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Get over it !!!!

Many models went to Fan Club only to whisper .
No need for more people to whisper . If you need to say something private - move your azz to private or use site email !!!!
If you stop trying to whisper - then you won't see that message .
Less whispering improved quality of rooms and conversations . Feel better if no whispering cums back

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Created by: Michelle Mills

5/28/15 @ 11:33am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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I think this is your fourth whispering topic here, gofish, but I can understand why you feel strongly. Whispering is "going overboard" as you say. It has now become an epidemic :evil

Just like Asti, I find that ALL new performers whisper EVERYTHING to me. Even the simplest messages like "hi", "hru" and "thx".

I have never liked whispering here, and have tried to do it as little as possible. VS still advise that whispers can be very disruptive and should be used responsibly and only when necessary (a).

I now have a genuine dilemma when performers whisper everything to me. Should I:

1. say "hi", "I'm fine thx", "hru" and other routine messages as a whisper

2. say "hi", "I'm fine thx", "hru" and other routine messages in open chat

3. tell the performer I don't like whispering

4. change my view about whispering, and start to enjoy it

5. simply leave the performer's room

Help :helpme

(a) http://www.flirt4free.com/faq.php?a=view&id=95

I as a performer will shine some light on this question...well at least for me....If anyone here has seen any of my open room chats (shows), you will soon notice that I LOVE to talk to my customers...I feel typing takes away from the flirting, or shock, or an "Oh Really?, wink wink" face that I give when I physically speak to someone...I like my customers to know that I noticed them entering my room, and they can see my excitement for their company by the way that I speak to them on camera...compared to a simple "Hi".

So with that intro, it leads into this...I like to use my hands to feel my body, blow kisses, etc... or I like to get up and dance, or turn around and booty shake...How "interupted" is it when I have to stop my movements to type something back...?!!? When someone comes into my room and whispers to me, as a customer, I politely tell them that my hands are busy at the moment,(usually caressing a delicate part of my body) so unless it is something that is seriously a private matter, like a very personal answer to a question, I won't whisper back!! They 98% have no problem with that...other 2% are my naughty customers (which I love btw) who can't hear me, so they whisper due to logging on at work, or they have company over!! (Those are my true fans that I love...cause they walk the naughty line....) haha

All in all, I prefer no whispering...or a purely quiet room for that matter....Who's ever been to a party in a library...not me...so liven up the chat rooms and let's get the party started!!

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Created by: stinks

5/28/15 @ 11:49am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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I as a performer will shine some light on this question...well at least for me....If anyone here has seen any of my open room chats (shows), you will soon notice that I LOVE to talk to my customers...I feel typing takes away from the flirting, or shock, or an "Oh Really?, wink wink" face that I give when I physically speak to someone...I like my customers to know that I noticed them entering my room, and they can see my excitement for their company by the way that I speak to them on camera...compared to a simple "Hi".

So with that intro, it leads into this...I like to use my hands to feel my body, blow kisses, etc... or I like to get up and dance, or turn around and booty shake...How "interupted" is it when I have to stop my movements to type something back...?!!? When someone comes into my room and whispers to me, as a customer, I politely tell them that my hands are busy at the moment,(usually caressing a delicate part of my body) so unless it is something that is seriously a private matter, like a very personal answer to a question, I won't whisper back!! They 98% have no problem with that...other 2% are my naughty customers (which I love btw) who can't hear me, so they whisper due to logging on at work, or they have company over!! (Those are my true fans that I love...cause they walk the naughty line....) haha

All in all, I prefer no whispering...or a purely quiet room for that matter....Who's ever been to a party in a library...not me...so liven up the chat rooms and let's get the party started!!

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